Support that meets you where you are.
At Solace Seat, therapy is more than a service. It’s a relationship grounded in trust, compassion, and purpose. Whether you're seeking deep emotional healing or focused personal growth, our sessions are designed to bring clarity, confidence, and lasting change.
What I Specialize In
At Solace Seat, I create a therapeutic environment that’s nurturing, collaborative, and deeply personalized. I work with a range of mental health concerns, while focusing my practice on these areas where I feel most passionate, experienced, and clinically equipped to help:
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Anxiety is part of being human. It can keep us alert, help us respond to danger, and occasionally remind us to pay attention. But when anxiety becomes a wildfire—spreading into your relationships, work, body, decisions, and everyday life—it can begin to feel like it is running the show. And sometimes what looks like anxiety on the surface is actually part of something deeper, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
I want to help you understand how your brain works and, more importantly, learn how to respond to it differently. It will be hard to find an intrusive thought I haven’t heard before. Bring the thoughts that scare you, embarrass you, or make you wonder, “What kind of person thinks this?” I can handle them.
Using evidence-based approaches, including exposure and response prevention (ERP), we’ll work toward a different relationship with your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. You’ll learn that a thought is not a fact, a feeling is not a command, and a sensation does not always require a response. Together, we’ll practice facing what anxiety tells you to avoid, loosening the grip of compulsions and reassurance-seeking, and building a life that isn’t organized around fear.
The goal isn't to never feel anxious again. It’s to stop letting anxiety call the shots: to make your world bigger, trust yourself more, and learn how to boss back your brain.
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Our culture has a lot to say about our bodies, and much of it leaves us feeling like we’re falling short. We’re constantly exposed to messages about how we should look, what we should change, and who we’re supposed to be. Over time, those messages can shape the way we see ourselves and the way we treat our own bodies.
My goal is to help you develop a healthier, more authentic relationship with yourself and your body. That doesn’t necessarily mean learning to love every part of yourself. Sometimes, the work is simply learning to make space for the parts you struggle to accept, becoming curious about what they’re trying to tell you, and discovering that they may have more to offer than you once believed.
This work can also include healing from body-based trauma, shame, criticism, and the experiences that have shaped the way you relate to yourself. Together, we can move toward a relationship with your body that feels less rooted in judgment and more grounded in compassion, acceptance, and self-trust.
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This is where I really cut my teeth as a therapist. Before private practice, I spent several years working as a Bereavement Coordinator and Grief Counselor for a hospice agency. Having experienced significant loss early in my own life, I felt drawn to this work: to offer a steady, compassionate presence to people who found themselves in a place they never asked for or imagined.
Grief is not a problem to solve or a timeline to follow. Sometimes therapy means untangling the myths and expectations we carry about how grief is “supposed” to look. Sometimes it means learning how to move through the world after a loss, while carrying what—and who—you have lost with you. And sometimes, particularly when a loss was sudden, complicated, or traumatic, grief also means tending to the trauma woven into the experience.
Not all loss is death-related. We can grieve relationships, dreams, identities, health, homes, communities, careers, seasons of life, and the future we thought we were going to have. If something mattered to you and it changed or was taken away, your grief is real. Therapy can help you make sense of what happened, honor what has been lost, and find your footing in what comes next.
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The perinatal period encompasses so much more than pregnancy and postpartum. I support individuals and couples through preconception, pregnancy, birth, postpartum, and the many emotional and relational transitions that come with becoming a parent. This can be an incredibly vulnerable season of life, bringing new emotions, unexpected challenges, and shifts in how we understand ourselves and the world around us.
I’ve completed specialized continuing education through Postpartum Support International to deepen my understanding of perinatal mental health and better support clients during this season. My approach is compassionate, evidence-based, and responsive to the unique experiences of each person and family.
I have particular expertise in perinatal loss and trauma, as well as perinatal anxiety and OCD. Whether you’re processing a loss, navigating a difficult pregnancy or birth experience, struggling with intrusive thoughts or anxiety, or simply finding this transition harder than you expected, therapy can provide a place to understand what you’re experiencing and find a way forward.
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I often think of trauma as what happens when an experience overwhelms our ability to process, make sense of, or recover from what happened. That might mean childhood trauma, complex or prolonged trauma, or a single traumatic event, like a car accident, medical experience, assault, loss, or something else that changed the way you experience yourself and the world around you.
If trauma is what happened, PTSD can be part of what happens afterward. Sometimes the past continues to show up in the present through hypervigilance, avoidance, intrusive memories, emotional or physical reactions, or a nervous system that seems to stay on high alert. We might find ourselves stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, reacting to present-day situations as though the original danger is happening all over again.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to trauma therapy. I draw from several evidence-based and trauma-informed approaches, including EMDR, IFS, and somatic therapies, tailoring treatment to your needs and your readiness. These approaches can help us work not only with the story of what happened, but also with the ways trauma has shaped your body, nervous system, emotions, beliefs, and relationships.
Sometimes trauma leaves us with what I think of as invisible broken bones, or old wounds that aren't visible from the outside but still affect how we move through the world. Therapy gives us the opportunity to find those places, understand what they need, and bring the right tools to the healing process. We don't have to erase what happened. We can work toward helping you feel safer, more grounded, and more fully yourself in the life you're living now.
Virtual Therapy Sessions
Healing starts here.
Therapy is a space to explore your story, process your experiences, and reconnect with your inner strength. Through one-on-one virtual sessions, we’ll use evidence-based approaches to support your emotional and mental well-being.
All sessions are conducted virtually for your comfort and convenience. Insurance is accepted for eligible clients. Out-of-pocket payment and HSA/FSA payments are also welcome.
Each session is tailored to your needs, drawing from therapeutic methods such as:
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Have you ever wished you could stop fighting with the things you can’t control? Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps us change our relationship with difficult thoughts, emotions, and experiences rather than spending all of our energy trying to get rid of them.
ACT incorporates mindfulness, acceptance, and values-based action to help you make room for what is here while becoming more intentional about how you want to live. The goal isn’t to feel better all the time or simply “accept” whatever life throws at you. It’s to loosen the struggle with what you can’t control and make more room for the things that matter to you with intention, flexibility, and self-compassion.
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Exposure and Response/Ritual Prevention (ERP/EXRP) is considered the gold-standard behavioral treatment for OCD. At its core, ERP involves gradually and intentionally facing the thoughts, situations, sensations, or uncertainties that OCD tells you to avoid, all while learning to resist the compulsions and mental rituals that keep the cycle going.
It can be uncomfortable work, but discomfort is not the same thing as danger. I will never ask you to do something that is genuinely unsafe, and you will never be forced into an exposure. ERP is collaborative, creative, and always done with your informed consent. Sometimes we may do things that feel strange, awkward, or even downright weird, and that’s okay. We’ll find ways to practice that are meaningful to your particular OCD patterns and challenging enough to help you build new learning.
Over time, you can begin to discover that you are more capable of tolerating uncertainty, discomfort, and intrusive thoughts than OCD has led you to believe. The goal isn’t to make your brain stop producing unwanted thoughts. It’s to help you stop letting those thoughts dictate what you do.
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Yes, it’s a mouthful! But EMDR is also one of the most well-researched therapies for trauma and PTSD. At its core, EMDR helps the brain reprocess experiences that still feel unresolved or threatening, so that the past can feel more like the past, and the present can feel more like the present.
I often think of it as helping your brain move from a constant red light toward a green light. When trauma keeps the nervous system stuck in survival mode, even reminders of what happened can trigger the sense that danger is still here. EMDR helps us work with those stuck responses so your brain and body can begin to recognize that you are here, now, and that the danger has passed.
We don’t erase memories with EMDR, and we don’t have to relive everything in order to heal. Instead, we work carefully and collaboratively with the experiences, beliefs, emotions, and body responses that are still getting in the way. The goal is not to forget what happened; it’s to help those memories have less power over your present so you can feel safer, freer, and more fully engaged in the life you’re living now.
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When requested, I offer a space for clients who want to incorporate faith or spirituality into their therapy to explore how those beliefs and values connect with mental health, relationships, and the challenges they are navigating.
Faith can be a meaningful source of hope, strength, and healing. It can also be something we wrestle with, question, or experience differently through different seasons of life. These experiences can be part of the therapeutic conversation when they feel relevant to you.
My approach is client-centered and respectful of each person’s beliefs and journey. Whether faith is central to your life, something you are exploring, or not part of your life at all, I will respect and work within your perspective.
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What if the parts of yourself you’ve learned to criticize, silence, or push away are actually trying to protect you?
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is based on the idea that we all have different “parts” of ourselves: protectors, critics, caretakers, inner children, dreamers, and others that have developed in response to our experiences. Some parts may feel helpful, while others may seem frustrating, reactive, or difficult to understand.
IFS invites us to get curious about these parts rather than fighting against them. We can explore where they came from, what they’re trying to protect, and what they need from you now. This can be especially meaningful when past trauma or difficult experiences have shaped the ways we respond to ourselves and the world around us.
The goal isn’t to get rid of the parts we don’t like. It’s to develop a more compassionate relationship with all of yourself, creating greater understanding, integration, and freedom in how you respond to life.
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Let’s get practical. This is where the social worker in me comes out to play.
Solution-Focused Therapy is a strengths-based approach that focuses on where you want to go rather than spending all of our time analyzing what’s gone wrong. We’ll identify your goals, notice the strengths and resources you already have, and look for the moments when things are working, even if they’re small.
From there, we can get curious: What’s different when things feel a little easier? What are you already doing that’s helping? And what would it look like to do a little more of that?
The goal is to turn insight into meaningful, manageable steps toward the life you want while recognizing that you already have more strengths, skills, and possibilities than you may realize.
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Your body remembers, and it also knows how to heal.
Somatic Experiencing is a body-based approach that helps us pay attention to the ways stress, anxiety, and trauma show up in your body and nervous system. Instead of relying only on words and thoughts, we slow down and become curious about sensations, impulses, tension, and patterns of activation that may be communicating something important.
Through increased body awareness, gentle regulation, and learning to stay present with what you’re experiencing, we can help your nervous system develop a greater sense of safety and flexibility. The goal isn’t to force your body to relax or make difficult sensations disappear. It’s to build a more connected relationship with your body so you can recognize what you need, respond with greater choice, and feel more grounded in the present.
Not Sure Where to Start?
Every journey begins with a conversation.
We begin with a free qualifying interview to learn more about you, your needs, and how I can best support your path forward. Head over to my contact page to fill out a form - let’s get the ball rolling.
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MEET YOUR GUIDE
Olivia S. Miller, LISW-CP
Therapist
My journey to become a therapist was a long and winding road. I’m so glad to finally be home. Before becoming a therapist, I worked in the medical field: as a nursing assistant, dental assistant, and even in an eye doctor’s office. No matter the role, one thing remained constant: my heart for helping people.
But I always felt called to care deeply for the parts of people that can’t be seen on a scan or measured in a chart. I wanted to support others on their emotional and mental health journeys, just as I was navigating my own. That calling led me to pursue my Master’s in Social Work from the University of Alabama, and later to become a Licensed Independent Social Worker – Clinical Practice (LISW-CP) in South Carolina.